Let's drop the B (and Q) too. Being confused, undecided, inconsistent, questioning, indiscriminate or promiscuous is not a gender. Look at your genitals and use the right bathroom.
Can't we drop the L too? Aren't lesbians gay? Or no? And when did we lose the meaning of the word gay from our language? Can we have that word back? If you are homo-sexual, you can say so or keep your private life private. Same sex attraction is not a synonym for happy. Some are less happy. What word to heteros get? Straight? Who gave us that label? Do we teach our language from Meriam Webster or from the 'urban dictionary'?
For the record, we on the right want more privacy, personal freedom, and liberty to pursue happiness for (all people including) gay people than do those on the left. The right to keep the fruits of your labor and investment, the right to choose your own healthcare, the right to opt in or out of a union, the right to NOT be asked 300 personal questions on the census, personal property rights and the right to have the government off of your land, the right to choose your own charities and not have your social causes forced on you by the government, the right to bear arms and defend yourself and your household, and on and on. Too bad no one ever makes that point to Democrat constituent groups.