Woof Cypher:
You are right, many do feel as you say-- many, but not all.
A story: Grandmaster Atillo of Balintawak tells the story of his famous match with Grandmaster Cacoy Canete of Doce Pares. He will show the letter signed by both of them agreeing to the rules-- one of which was "No Grappling".
If grappling does not/can not happen in the absence of headgear, why was this rule necessary? Why was it insisted upon by GM Atillo? Could it be that GM CC, whose system "Eskrido" is a blend of ESKRIma and JuDO?
Then, in telling the story he will show you the picture from the paper the next day showing CC holding him in a headlock and say "You see! He cheated!"
If the particular traditionalists you reference are right, how can this be?
I'm not going to use terms like Arnis, Eskrima, Kali, Silat, or Kali-silat
but what of all the various FMA systems with grappling, both in the presence of weapons and not?
If grappling does not happen in the presence of weapons, what about the clinch material in the MILITARY system of old Thailand? Or in Burma's Bando? What about the various Silats? -- are none of these from the Philippines, or is the argument that the FMA lack what these systems have?
Speaking from my own experience against many opponents I can pretty consistently enter with my head untouched-- and so can many of the people I have taught. This can be seen in DBMA #4 Attacking Blocks and more in the to-be-released "Stickgrappling-Clinch"
Yes, this skill was developed in part by surviving mistakes thanks to headgear. And yes, many of the people who fight at our Gatherings exploit headgear to create grappling-- often because they lack adequate stick skills. And yes, shooting low is pretty unsound as a general rule in a stick fight.
But still the assertion based upon experience remains: Grappling can be consistently created in a way that does not rely upon protective gear.
In DMBA our clinch material is a blend principally of Inosanto Blend (FMA) Krabi Krabong (Thai) Bando (Burma) Silat (various, including Philippines) BJJ (Brazil) and wrestling (America).
On the ground it is a blend of Inosanto, Bando, and BJJ.
Just because emotions behind the printed word can readily be misunderstood, please allow to plainly state that all the forgoing is said in cheery, friendly spirit.
Woof,
Crafty Dog