... Is what I've been having to do up here in Nor Cal. The problem has to do with pinning down the guy I suspect, my girlfriend's ex.
The past year that we've been together, he has been sneaking around during our visits to her parent's place up here. Leaving little notes in her mail box, Christmas presents at her doorstep, little things for her to stumble upon while I am around. Of course he does this without making his presence known...
Recently, my girlfriend has been getting some harassing voice mails from a blocked number as well. I always shrug it off and tell her not to worry about it, because whoever it is hasn't the balls to do anything more than that. Things seem to be changing.
I recently left my truck parked in front of her parent's place for a few days while I went back to L.A. to handle a couple of things at work. When I got back up here, I drove my truck to a coffee shop to get my fix, and when I came out, I started my truck and noticed my brakes didn't work. I checked the brake fluid and it was full, and managed to get it to a local mechanic for a look.
Next day, the mechanic called me and said there was nothing wrong with my brakes, and with some concern, he told me that my truck had been tampered with. Someone had gotten under my hood and manually disconnected the hose which connects to the power booster and controls my brake pressure. After he reconnected it, he told me to go ahead and wiggle it loose, and I couldn't because it was secured with two clamps.
"These hoses don't wiggle loose on their own. Someone pulled the clamps, and left the hose barley connected, so that the vibrations of your vehicle would eventually force it off while you were driving. There is no other way for it to come off. Your vehicle has been tampered with."
He documented the tampering on the invoice for me and sent me on my way.
So now things have come into my world. I've already sifted through all the obvious fantasies you could imagine when it comes to solving this. I know where he lives, where he works, etc... But at 31, I'm trying to be a bit more responsible. Plus, the guy I'm talking about was hired by the Cal State campus police dept, he was later fired due to incompetency, but still holds a desk job, pushing papers there. So I have to be a little bit careful with my procedures....
It should also be noted that the guy I'm talking about poses absolutely zero threat to me when it comes to man to man conflict, which is frustrating, because he will not engage me on this level. Instead, I have to sit around and deal with his cowardice. And I'm kind of done with it...
I couldn't think of a better group of guys to present this scenario to.
How would you guys handle this?
Also, best to all of you guys throwing down this Sunday!!